I love hugs. One of the most difficult things for me during the COVID pandemic was not being able to hug…or fist bump…or get closer than six feet. As we move through this public health crisis, hopefully we will be able to get back to hugging! Whether you hug someone […]
Daily Archives: July 4, 2021
Most people think of therapy as being an option only for adults, teens and perhaps pre-teen youth. The idea of traditional therapy i.e. sitting in a chair and talking about your problems for an hour is pretty funny if you think about putting a 3 or 4 year old in […]
It is easy to focus on the negative when it seems like nothing is going well. Let’s face it, life is a challenge, even in the best of times. We experience sad, scary and hurtful things regularly in life. This can happen within ourselves such as when facing a physical […]
Lately, I have been thinking about the concept of personal responsibility. Personal responsibility is the acceptance of standards that society sets for individual behavior and our efforts to live by those standards. Conversely, it also means when someone fails to meet the expected standards, they do not look for external […]
I often find that the person we find most difficult to forgive is ourselves. One of the reasons this is so hard seems to be the idea that we have to be perfect. We live in a society where perfection is the expected destination instead of appreciating the joys and […]
Do you ever wonder “why is this happening to me?” Understanding an experience can lessen the anxiety we feel about it and lead to acceptance regardless of the outcome. This can be difficult when we get stuck in the objective facts of the situation, wrangling with thoughts like “what have […]
I love receiving holiday cards for many reasons. Real mail from real people is actually in the mail box. You hear from people that you care about but don’t often see, getting a picture of the happenings in their lives. It is a way to stay connected in a busy […]